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Learning from an exceptional boy
  1. Hannah R Cock1,2
  1. 1Atkinson Morley Regional Epilepsy Network, St George’s University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust, London, UK
  2. 2Institute of Medical & Biomedical Education, St George’s University, London, UK
  1. Correspondence to Professor Hannah R Cock, Atkinson Morley Regional Epilepsy Network, St George’s University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust, London SW17 0QT, UK; hannahrc{at}

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My son, Alfie, was born 6 years into my role as an academic consultant neurologist with an interest in epilepsy. On his second day he was floppier than expected, and so was referred for a brain scan that revealed multiple malformations, the cause of which was never determined. He had his first seizure at 3 months of age, evolving into a clear developmental epileptic encephalopathy within weeks. By age 18 months he had specialist seating, PEG feeds, a tracheostomy, home oxygen and was ventilator-assisted. He was multisensory impaired, and had very little trunk or head control ever, though on a good day could kick and hit out at noisy toys with some purpose. He smiled, laughed, loved swimming, tasters and cuddles, and knew those most familiar to him (figure 1 and Figure 2). Alfie far outlived initial expectations, but died after a short illness in April 2016, leaving a legacy through organ donation, through the many lives he touched, and through all that I learnt from him (supplementary data).

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Figure 1

Alfie and I enjoying tasters on my birthday in September 2015

Figure 2

Alfie enjoying a visit to friends in August 2014.

If you have a chronic, life-threatening or life-limiting condition, particularly if it is unpredictable as with epilepsy, knowing there is an …

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